THERAPY for relationships in California & NEW YORK


Improve Your Romantic and Interpersonal Relationships

Patricia Alvarado - EMDR therapist

When a relationship is marked by trust issues, fear of abandonment, and emotional unavailability, it can create a deep sense of loneliness and insecurity.

The pain of reenacting cycles of abuse or dealing with intergenerational trauma often resurfaces, intensifying feelings of low self-worth and fear of vulnerability. 

Infidelity can shatter the foundation of trust, leaving one partner feeling unsafe and the other struggling with guilt.

Conflict avoidance or aggression can become default responses, further weakening intimacy and connection.

These patterns can make it challenging to feel truly seen and heard, leading to a deep desire for healing and breaking free from these destructive cycles.

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Therapy can help you uncover how unresolved trauma and unhealthy patterns are blocking you from experiencing fulfilling and secure relationships, whether through couples therapy or individual counseling.

You can break free from destructive cycles, heal from past wounds, and build the foundation for healthier, more satisfying connections.

Therapy can help you:

Heal from Past Wounds

You’ll be able to confront and heal from emotional scars, whether they stem from childhood trauma, past relationships, or unresolved pain in a support environment.  This healing process helps release the hold that these past wounds have on your present and future, allowing you to move forward with greater emotional freedom.

Build Trust

Trust is foundational in any relationship, yet it can be easily damaged. We will focus on rebuilding trust through consistent actions, open communication, and setting healthy boundaries. As trust is rebuilt, you’ll notice that it becomes easier to rely on others, strengthening connections and fostering deeper bonds.

Improve Communication within Each Interaction

Effective communication is key to understanding and being understood. You’ll learn ways to develop the skills to express yourself clearly and listen actively, reducing misunderstandings and fostering a more supportive dialogue in every interaction you find yourself in.

Break Toxic Cycles

Many relationships are troubled by repeated negative patterns, such as arguments, withdrawal, or resentment. You’ll learn to identify these toxic cycles and explore tools to break them, replacing them with healthier, more constructive ways of relating within your romantic and interpersonal relationships.

Enhance Self-Worth

Low self-esteem can undermine relationships by fostering insecurity and dependence. Within our work together, you’ll recognize your inherent value, boosting self-worth and encouraging more balanced and fulfilling interactions within your relationships.

Gain Emotional Intimacy

Beyond physical closeness, emotional intimacy involves sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities with your partner. Working together will allow you to nurture this connection, helping you feel more emotionally bonded and secure in your relationships.



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